The Best Learning Experiences

best-learning-experiences1I’m experiencing a second spring. When I left Georgia the leaves were nearing full size and everything was vibrantly shaded and alive. By the time I got up here to the Badlands, spring had regressed to browns and below freezing temps, like someone hit the reset button on the season. Now, in South Dakota things are about like they were when I left the Southeast. I got to have spring twice this year, how neat is that?

That’s not the only neat thing I’ve experienced lately. I awoke one morning this past week to fog rolling down off the higher prairie, shrouding the tops of the badlands in mist and creeping down the wall towards the lower side where the campground lies. Luckily, since my phone and my camera are one and the same, I’m rarely without it.

After snarfing a quick breakfast at the lodge I jumped in Bertha and drove out to get a better view. This is the first and only time I’ve seen this phenomenon so far, I doubt most visitors to the park get this rare opportunity. As Bertha diligently scaled the road up the wall, the fog got thicker and the temperature dropped, I’m guessing the temperature difference between the upper and lower prairie helped contribute to the phenomenon. Merely an hour later the fog was all gone, it was a warm and sunny day.


Last Wednesday was my only day off this week, and by coincidence there was a company sponsored trip happening on the same day down to Pine Ridge.

Those tuning in last week remember that my original intent in heading South on my last day off was to go see the reservation, but somehow I missed seeing much of anything down there. Well, it turns out I was on the wrong road.

best-learning-experiences3The tour was very interesting. I liked it, even though it was a far cry from a normal touristy type trip, or maybe because it was so different. Our guides were natives, and gave about as thorough a history and culture lesson as could be asked for in the time that was available while the bus was in motion, plus we made several stops: a museum, two different schools, a visitor’s center, and the Wounded Knee massacre site.

Part of why I liked the trip so much is because it made me think. Pine Ridge isn’t just poor when compared to local counties in South Dakota, it’s the second poorest county in the whole country. While the visit was during about the prettiest time of year with everything green like it is, most of the towns weren’t very pretty at all. One of the silent questions I couldn’t help but ask myself while we were touring is who’s to blame for the reservation being in the state it’s in.

best-learning-experiences4So many people on the internet just like to point fingers. I’m don’t like to do that, especially on the internet where you can’t have a real back and forth conversation. Very rarely in real life are things black and white simple, and this is definitely one of those cases. I thought about it for a few days after the trip, and the only conclusion I can come to is that with only about 6 hours or so experience on the issues faced at Pine Ridge I simply don’t have enough knowledge to make a fair conclusion.

best-learning-experiences5But, in the grand scheme of things what’s past is past. No matter what kind of circumstances you find yourself in, it’s important not to let your past define you. I believe things can always get better if you work at it, and this tour program is part of what Pine Ridge is doing to improve their situation. The visitor’s center is a pretty new building, designed to help improve tourism to the reservation and educate outsiders about the Lakota Sioux. Their also negotiating with the National Park Service to develop their half of the Badlands to be more like the north loop where I work, complete with it’s own gift shop and the like. I’d like to come back to the reservation in ten years or so and see how things have changed.

best-learning-experiences6So yeah, an interesting trip. The best learning experiences aren’t the ones that simply give you answers to questions, they’re the ones that make you ask more questions and give you a different way of looking at things. They promote growth by making you step outside your comfort zone. And last Wednesday sure gave me some things to think about.

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  1. Jim@HiTek on May 26, 2013 at 12:18 pm

    Wish you’d post some pictures of the villages/towns you saw.
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    • Becky on May 27, 2013 at 9:38 pm

      It felt like an invasion of privacy to do so. Most residents are pretty down on their luck, and posting pictures up would have felt like I was pointing a finger and laughing at their situation.

      • Jim@HiTek on May 27, 2013 at 10:11 pm

        Don’t think anyone would characterize it as ‘pointing a finger and laughing’. Your posts in general just don’t give me the feeling that you are cruel. Pointing out the plight of the Native Americans is something I’ve been doing here and there for decades. I remember a trip to Grand Canyon with an outdoor club I belong to and one of our members wore traditional native clothing and jewelery, espousing how near she was to their traditions. When we passed through the Navaho reservation, she was blind to the conditions they were living in, until I pointed it out to her. That shut her up. So it’s not the pictures you’d be showing, but your heart in expressing your feelings about it.

        Just my opinion.
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        • Becky on May 30, 2013 at 12:03 am

          You have a good point Jim, there are several ways of going about it. I just did what felt right to me at the time. 🙂 Thank you for spreading the word as well!

  2. David on May 26, 2013 at 10:41 am

    The wisdom in your words and the story that unfolds is truley a treat to read.
    Thank you for sharing with me and the other readers, your story and experiances along the way.

    Dave San Diego

    • Becky on May 27, 2013 at 9:33 pm

      You’re welcome David!

  3. Kim on May 25, 2013 at 11:00 pm

    Great photos! You were right – the rest of the Badlands Loop was amazing. And it was nice to use the dump station for $1. I enjoyed meeting you yesterday. (I posted our photo on yesterday’s blog post if you want a copy). Take care and I look forward to seeing where your future adventures take you!
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    • Becky on May 27, 2013 at 9:32 pm

      Heya Kim! It was great meeting you too, and I’m glad you liked the rest of the Badlands, it really is a natural wonder. I’m going to save that picture of the both of us, it might make it into my next post if that’s okay with you. 🙂 I think tomorrow I’ll be going to Custer State Park for the day, I might hit the caves too, or save them for a day later in the summer when it’s too hot to do anything else since it’ll be cooler underground. I hope I can get as close to the bison as you did, they tend to stay a ways from the road out here.

  4. Pleinguy on May 25, 2013 at 8:54 pm

    Very interesting report on the area’s history and current condition. You provided some insight that one not there could not have learned. Thanks again for an enlightening story. i’m just two weeks away from hitting the road; and eager to get rolling.
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    • Becky on May 27, 2013 at 9:22 pm

      Glad you liked it Plein, and congrats! You must be very excited now with only two weeks to go, what’s your first destination going to be?

      • Pleinguy on May 28, 2013 at 8:15 pm

        I’ll begin with visiting friends and family here in Florida. Then head north along the Appalachians to visit other family. Slow and easy is the plan.
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        • Becky on May 30, 2013 at 12:01 am

          Sounds like a good plan! I love the Appalachia area, so beautiful. Have fun and be safe.

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